“building your own garden” is really important as we head in to a couple of years of worldwide bullshit
places where you feel safe and supported, like smaller group chats or closed/moderated communities
hobbies purely for your own enjoyment
I’m tired, but we’ll get through it again
born to :3 forced to 🙂
not to flex but apple intelligence thinks mine and @snowfox.gay’s stickers are “cute animal photos” and I wasn’t expecting that kind of digital validation today
I asked @snowfox.gay what he was most looking forward to on our FWA / marriage trip and he said “boy pussy” 🫠
hello friends - I’ve been feeling like a nickname change for a while, so I’m trying “sage” for a couple of weeks to see how I feel about it 🧡
keeping lopcode for usernames everywhere because I like that a lot
reflections on 2024
I got married and that was fucking great, ideal relaxed ceremony with friends at a con
travelled so much and met loads of great new people across the US
getting better at standing my ground, and not suffering bad behaviour or social exploitation
🐰💭
today I am 34 🥳
rabbits
ignoring what other people think and enjoying something is a hugely underrated skill