It is really fun to live in NYC right now. The Knicks won and our mayor is basically a Disney character who just jumped into a pool with a bunch of kids and we had a ridiculously good pride and it’s hot and humid and that sucks …
I love how this makes it seem like they stopped monitoring RFK Jr
I can't believe we still have to remind people of these things but: most rape victims don't file police reports. (You're reading one right now.) Shock, denial, need to appease the rapist, nominally friendly behavior toward the rapist, etc. are all common reactions
Also just thinking about different Mitch McConnell’s legacy would be if he’d voted for impeachment and conviction. Had a chance to have a right side of history last roll of the dice and chickened out
As for the men wondering why women wait so long to come forward: because it's humiliating, you dumb fucks. Not because we did anything wrong but because of the way society views survivors and the fact that we're always put on trial too if we report it--as if we're also the perpetrators
If you’re self identifying as a Democrat but saying with a straight face that DSA members hate America and the job of Dems is to support free marketism, you can just march your ass over to the GOP and be done with it
I have no struggle with this at all. Who is this "most of us"?
One minor thing that annoys me personally about this shit is that some people romanticize a blue collar white boy aesthetic but can’t tell an actual working class backwoodser from a rich aspiring dirtbag who went to Hotchkiss
The women who come forward in these cases do it sometimes because they think the man who assaulted them is going to be given the power to harm others. Christine Blasey Ford certainly didn't need the attention, death threats, scrutiny, insults, trolling, expense of accusing Brett Kavanaugh
If you don't understand why you should pay attention to the stories of anyone who's experienced it. Women experience sexual assault may feel a lot of different things afterwards. They may want to pretend it didn't happen and rationalize it away.
I speak from experience: this will not have the outcome they’re hoping for
They may feel shame because we're conditioned as women to believe that we must have been complicit if it's anything except a stranger in a back alley. They may be afraid of their rapist and feel that they have to appease him or stay friendly with him to stay safe.
The funny thing is - there’s no mayor in my lifetime who has studied the way NYC works or the prior mayors and the history like Zohran. No one has been more respectful toward NYC’s history
When people pretend that women not wanting to date conservatives is them being emotional and unhinged, it tells y that they’re angry that their values are being rejected. Politics are not and have never been value neutral.
And if it's someone they care about / cared about, there may be enough sympathy to excuse what they did.
excellent @maragay.bsky.social on why the Dem establishment needs to wake the fuck up and face the fact that the electorate is to the left of them on pretty much everything: www.nytimes.com/2026/07/14/o...
But everyone is on the same page about it. Saw a bunch of World Cup people move in tandem - New Yorkers and some European transplants into a better cooler outdoor space like they were just a continuous robot. It was hilarious
And the Zohran admin has so many summer things that are great if you have kids. Even the public pools which might seem like a minor thing
But influential Dems falling for it re: Platner is depressing. Personally I think Platner bragging about being violent as a mercenary should have merited a giant oppo file by itself but what do I know.
But if you grew up in the Deep South as I did you know what that means. The public pools were a big point of segregation. The white segregationists argued that it was an inherent hygiene issue. Eugenics, basically,
And Zohran is doing something that was an NYC tradition way back -
The mayor would jump into the pool, or the ocean whatever
Me, ever since the Nazi tattoo: this guy sucks so bad
Every Pod Save-aligned bro in my feed: every candidate has flaws!
Me, person with tattoos and siblings who are veterans who knows he didn’t just fall onto a tattoo needle for 8 hours and end up with something he didn’t know was a Nazi symbol: 😐
Even in red states rich white Republicans deepen their accents and talk about their PawPaws and hard times but people see through it there and just don’t need them to be authentic.